Why ‘What They Don’t Know Won’t Hurt Them’ , Usually does Far more Harm than Good – Step 8

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3 responses to “Why ‘What They Don’t Know Won’t Hurt Them’ , Usually does Far more Harm than Good – Step 8”

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   December 1, 2011

   JB jr.

   My pride and vanity can be so thick that its hard for me to see when its a good idea for me to make an amends. I don’t even get to the beating myself up part. I have to keep my sponsor up to date with what’s happening in my life so I can see more clearly.
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   November 29, 2011

   Margot E.

   Ahhhh, my greatest untreated Al-Anon escape: If I don’t acknowledge it, it isn’t really there. So, I see what you mean, Easy, about the amends being about teaching to look at my past honestly and learn from it. I have to remember “Easy does it” when I want to condemn myself for the things I have done. Then, “Let go and let God” show me the way to make amends – show me the way to learn from the past – show me that I am still loved, unconditionally by the God I reclaimed in Step 2.
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   November 29, 2011

   easy does it

   Well it isnt really about “them” its about me doing the right thing. I believe amends
   Helps to build my own character